Day 2–Getting Lost, The Met, Lincoln and Mincemeat

This is my typical walk in NYC. Start one way, figure out it's the wrong way, go another way, no, that's the wrong way, and do it all over again.

Our day started with me walking. And as I write this on the morning of day 4, I can definitely say I have gotten older since the last time we were in NYC. I just can’t get my bearings. We have been here four times, and in the first three, I had no problem finding my way. Now I wander around like a lost child, looking for his mommy. Or my friend Mike and I wandering around Singapore pre-dawn. Yes, I could use a maps app on my phone, but I swear, when it says start route, I NEVER know which way to go. Supposedly, if I look at the little dot on the phone, it shows the direction I am going. But the buildings here seem to mess it up, and I will get half a block away before it tells me I have gone the wrong way. This morning I walked half an Avenue block (the long ones) before I realized I was going uptown instead of downtown, where I wanted to go. I know where I want to go; I just can’t seem to get my head in the right place. Check out this screenshot of my route. It’s nuts. I walk up a half a block, then back, then up the same block another way, then back and then a different block. The truly funny thing is that I get messed up when I go find these places in the morning but when we go out as a large or small group, everyone expects me to be the guide.

At any rate, Friday, after my walk, I went out and brought a small breakfast back to the room. We ate, then met the group for a "luxury motor coach" ride up to the Metropolitan Museum of Art. On the way, we stopped at the Strawberry Fields section of Central Park for a quick walk and talk led by our excellent guide, Hardy. I need to say here that it would be really nice if Break-Away Tours invested in Whisper devices that let you plug the guide directly into your ear. With 41 of us in a crowded outdoor space, it is sometimes very difficult to hear the guides.

After our stop in Central Park, we continued uptown (I think ?) to the Met. It was PACKED! But we had a private tour arranged that lasted a little more than an hour. Our guide told us that seeing all the exhibits would take about three weeks' worth of 24-hour days, so he gave us a highlights tour of what he thought we might like to see. We saw Tiffany glass, African art, European portraiture, British sculpture, and Greek statuary. I have to say, our guide was very good. He shared things I had not heard before (I never took an art appreciation course) about the paintings. I truly enjoyed it. When he was done, he released us into the wilds of the museum to catch lunch (which we did) and then to wander for about an hour. At this point, Kathleen had walked more than she had in a long while, so I got her an Lyft (thanks for the freebie, Chase) and sent her back to the hotel for a nap while the rest of us moved on to tour Lincoln Center. I told Kathleen later that she made the right choice, as the Lincoln Center tour was the lowlight (so far) of our trip.

Our guide was new and didn’t know much. It was kind of sad. People would ask him questions, and he would say, “I will have to look that up for a future tour,” or “That wasn’t in our training.” Since we had split into three small groups, our group had just picked the short straw. We saw the other groups doing a lot more interesting things, and the reviews from those groups were great, but we just got the wrong guide.

After our tour at LC, we returned to the hotel for a brief rest before heading out to dinner on our own. Kathleen and I had made reservations for six or eight (depending on the night) at nearby restaurants. That night, we were dining with six other Trilogy friends at the famous Sardi’s in the heart of the theater district. This is where cast members (and a lot of famous people) come to have dinner or drinks post-show. Their walls are lined with signed (by the subject) framed caricature portraits. Some are easily recognizable, while others we had to go up to and read the signatures, and depending on how bad their handwriting was, we still don’t know who they are.

The food (like the previous night’s at Tony’s DiNapoli) was fine. I had lasagna because it hadn’t been part of the feast the night before. The menu leaned a little toward Italian cuisine, but there were other options. But you don’t go to Sardi’s for the food. You go for the history. It’s been there for 100 years. And it’s one of those places you need to go once. We did the same thing when we went to The Ivy in London two years ago, before a play in the West End. Good food, but you are there for the history.

After dinner, we walked about half a block to the theater to see Operation Mincemeat. It was quite the show. Five actors, 54 characters, about a thousand costume changes, some great songs (sung way too fast ?), some very poignant songs that brought a tear to my eye, and some hilarious laughs. Not my favorite show I have ever seen, but pretty darn good. And it’s based on a true story. Check out the description in my pre-trip post.

After the show, we were DONE! It was back to the hotel (thankfully only three blocks away) and bed. I was so tired I didn’t even bother to walk the next morning…which was OK since we walked a ton more the next day. More about that in my next post.

Photos are below. If my gallery module works, they will look good and work well. You can click them to enlarge. Hope it does. Sadly I can't figure out how to drop them between my paragraphs so today they are all at the end.

The fact that I even get in Broadway shows is, to me, still amazing, but then to win a Tony was just incredible.  —Jane Krakouski

We are going to BROADWAY!

Fom a recent trip (2024) to NYC. This was a two day stop off the Oceania Vista. Our trip this time will be six nights in a hotel in Times Square

We are back to traveling! YEAH!!! In less than two weeks, Kathleen and I will get up really early (4:00 am) and meet 26 other Trilogy residents at our clubhouse for a ride to SeaTac Airport, where we will all board Alaska Air flight 34 nonstop to the Big Apple.

I know this sounds very different from our usual trips. For one thing, we don’t usually travel with 41 people, but we will this time. If you are a regular reader, you know that we live in a 55+ community called Trilogy on Redmond Ridge in Washington State. Our community has an active Travel Club, and I happen to be its president. One of the things the Travel Club does is offer quarterly trips for members. In the 20+ years the Trilogy Travel Club has existed, it has traveled to every continent except Antarctica, visited more than 50 countries, and traveled all over the US.

I joined almost as soon as we moved four years ago and was asked to join the board and take over as Vice President and Communications Director in my first year. I became president the second year and have been ever since. I tell you all this because, in that time, there have been more than 12 Travel Club trips, and we have been on exactly NONE OF THEM!

So we decided we needed to join one, and along came a theater tour to New York City. Two of our members participated in a theater tour sponsored by a local theater group and LOVED it. They thought it would make a great trip to offer to the club. So we contacted Alex at Break-Away Tours, who had led the theater tour they went on, and started setting this up.

To get a little deeper into why this trip will be special for the Club,I need to let you know that up until the pandemic, the Club trips had a very high rate of participation. Usually, the Club’s trips and tours would have 20-30 members (out of our total of 450 members) traveling on them. Since the pandemic, it has been hard to get back to those numbers. Our norm right now is somewhere around eight people. Sometimes as few as four. We have started working with tour companies who don’t have minimums for tours because they will do a tour with 16 people and combine our eight with four from somewhere else and four more from another place. It’s great but not what used to happen.

On this theater tour, we (the Travel Club Board) decided to roll the dice and do a private tour with a minimum number of people required, or the tour would not go. Break-Away only does private tours, so we had to have at least 20 going. To be honest, when we rolled out the trip, I wasn’t sure it would go. Getting 21 people to want to travel that far and spend that much was a distant memory in our Club’s history.

But lo and behold, three days after we put the trip on sale, we were sold out with 41 people headed to Broadway. In fact, up until our final payment date on Valentine’s Day, we had a waiting list of 8 more people who, sadly, won’t be joining us.

So that’s why, a week from Thursday, Kathleen and I will get up early, board a “luxury motor coach” I have arranged, and take off on a Broadway adventure. We will be in NYC for 7 days/6 nights, leaving on April 30 and returning home on May 6.

The trip itself looks to be amazing. We have tickets for three Broadway musicals and one straight play, lots of different tours, six nights at the Westin Times Square (where we can walk to every theater in less than 10 minutes) and a bunch more that I will detail between now and when we leave.

Needless to say, we have never done a tour like this. Most people we have ever traveled with were on our Martini Mates reunion cruise to Alaska in 2017, when we had 17 people on Celebrity’s Solstice. This will definitely be an adventure, and I will be detailing it all here on our blog. If you want to follow along, make sure to sign up to be notified when I post.

Broadway is a main artery of New York life – the hardened artery.   —Walter Winchell

Finally Back!

It certainly has been a while, but I think, hope and pray that I am back posting on my own website. The transition from WordPress.com to plain old WordPress on my BlueHost server has been interesting, frustrating and sometimes downright horrid, but I think it is on the way to becoming the site I want it to be and that I hope you will like. There are still a few things we are working on, but once I found a new software solution called Divi, things got better. Mostly due to their amazing tech support from a (sorry to type this) AI named Fin (Divi is made in Finland, thus Fin).

I know we're not supposed to love AIs, but I believe that helping with tech support is one of their best functions. One of the things I dislike most about human tech support via chat or voice is that if you don't understand something on the first try, they start thinking, "This guy must be really dumb." When you ask them for the third or fourth time how to do something, they really seem to think you are a total moron. I don't usually have to ask three times, but sometimes, when learning an entirely new way to do something, it takes that many repetitions. And human tech support, being paid by the hour and the number of people they assist, truly just wants people like me to go away so they can go on with answering calls and helping people with a computer IQ over 10.

An AI, on the other hand, doesn't care how many times you ask it a question. It will review the problem with you, again and again. And its AI is great at that. It even tells me it understands how frustrating it is to try to work through something and think it works, only for it to revert to the problem when you go back to it an hour later. Believe me, that has happened to me. And that's when I start to scream, cry, or both. Thankfully, I have a wonderful wife who puts up with me and an amazing dog who knows when I am stressed and gives me as many snuggles and kisses as I can handle when things go wrong. And in this journey to start the year, lots of things have gone wrong. Again and again and again.

Which brings us to here. My "new" website. Please take a minute to look around and let me know if you find anything that needs attention. I have had Kathleen and my buddy Bob looking at it this week and I think I have fixed most of the things they mentioned to me and the other thing is what Divi's tech support is working on.

It is pretty much the same content as before (other than this post), but in some ways a better design and in some ways worse. For instance, do you remember all those cool galleries that you could click and turn into slide shows of my photos? Well, it took me forever to figure out how to get those to work in the new format. But as you will see below, I have recreated it. Now I just have to figure out how to make the captions bigger and more readable when you click on the photo to see it. But that also means that if you look at past posts, those galleries are gone, replaced with just thumbnails of my photos that you have to click twice to see. For them to look like they used to, I would have to go back and change each one individually. As much as I love you, my readers, that's not going to happen. 

So, as my first post on the new site (we haven't really been traveling), I wanted to update you on what we've been doing in the first 2.5 months of 2026. 

January was all about the usual stuff. Seriously, for some reason, January always feels like a boring month. I just looked back at our calendar, and the most exciting thing that happened was that our dishwasher broke and was out of commission for nearly the entire month until the warranty company agreed to pay for the repair. 

But February was a bit busier. I went down to Olympia a couple of times to see the kids. I saw Maylee in a play (Frozen) and attended a basketball game where Mason's high school band was performing. I also met his girlfriend, Kyleigh (who is amazing), and caught up with the Olympia group in Gig Harbor to celebrate Mason's 15th birthday by playing Laser Tag (I LOVE LASER TAG–photo below). 

At the start of March, we both traveled to Olympia proudly to be there when our son-in-law, Joel, was promoted to Lieutenant in the Washington State Patrol. This is a pretty big deal, and there is a picture below. I would have added these photos here, but I wanted to make sure the gallery/slide show module worked correctly, so that's why you get to see them. 

The other three photos in the gallery are from walks I took this month, along with a photo I snapped outside our front door yesterday (March 13). Yes, we had snow on March 13, which isn't supposed to happen in Western Washington. We compared the weather with my brother and sister-in-law in Southern California, and they were unseasonably hot (mid-80s), while we were getting snow. Of course, the current regime running our government claims there is no such thing as climate change, so we know we will be OK. 

My next post will return to travel topics as I share details about our upcoming trips. We have three planned between now and the end of June. Stay tuned. Don't forget to let me know if you see any issues by commenting below. That will also help me verify that comments are working.

To conquer frustration, one must remain intensely focused on the outcome, not the obstacles.  — T.F. Hodge

A few short notes

Changes

Good day, everyone! First, I want you to know about something before I do it. As I hope you remember, I have recently moved this site from wordpress.com to a new server. When I did that, lots of stuff I took for granted changed. Things like automatically sending you a notification when I write a new post, or a place to comment that disappeared for most users, and I needed to get a new e-mail address (jim@jimbellomo.com). I will still be using my old one as well. I now have seven, I think ?.

At any rate, one of the big things I found out is that my "theme" is no longer being supported by WordPress. It is a VERY old theme, so I need to update it. When I do this, you are really going to notice it. It will look like a complete redesign. I have about three weeks to get a new design before it stops working altogether. (FYI: A theme is what makes this website look the way it does.) So watch for that here in just a few short weeks...I hope.

Random thoughts

A couple of things I have seen in the past few weeks. Here's the first one. It comes from an article in the Seattle Times, and it both cracked me up and saddened me. It was in an article about the lack of WiFi on the Washington State ferry system. They used to offer somewhat decent WiFi, which you could buy from a company called Boingo. But about three or four years ago, they went out of business and since then, no WiFi. Here's the last couple of paragraphs of that article that just killed me. I highlighted the part I want you to see.

OMG! People might actually have to..." be bored, have to read, look out a window or (heaven forbid) talk to strangers." Does that just say it all about the state of people today? And it's not like there is nothing to look at. If you have ever been on a Washington State ferry, you don't go to ugly places. There is ALWAYS something interesting to look at out every window. But heaven forbid you might have to actually read something (instead of scrolling through videos). Or talk to a stranger. 99% of my friends were strangers when I first met them. Okay, old man rant is over now. You may return to your regularly scheduled programming.

Television

I am not sure I have ever mentioned it, but we are TV people. We just like a lot of great shows. We especially love British television. We often exchange ideas about what to watch with friends. I just want to tell you about a superb show we just finished watching, the first season of, and another we just started.

The first is a wonderful British mystery series, now available on PBS, called Bookish. It stars Mark Gatis, who created it. You might know him from the Benedict Cumberbatch show Sherlock, where he played Sherlock's brother Mycroft. The best thing I can say about this show is that it reads like a script written by both Arthur Conan Doyle and Noel Coward. The mysteries (six shows, each story is two episodes) are excellent, and the writing is as witty as I have heard in years. Give it a try if you love British shows as we do.

The other show is on Britbox. It is so good, it is almost worth subscribing to Britbox just to see it. It's called Riot Women. It's about a group of middle-aged women who are going through a lot and decide to form an all-female punk rock band. It is hilarious, poignant, and so much more. We have seen the first two episodes, and we can't wait to see the rest. If you watch a lot of British TV, you will recognize many of the people in this show. It's outstanding! Oops, I forgot to mention that it is filmed in Yorkshire, where our good friends Paul and Gail live and that we have visited twice. This part of Great Britain is absolutely beautiful. And Paul and Gail were the first to tell us about this show—thanks, guys.

That's about it. Watch for changes coming soon, and if you get an announcement from me that doesn't have my caricature smiling and waving at you, it's just a mistake. Sorry.

If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living. - Gail Sheehy

 

Keely’s Gotcha Day

Keely’s Gotcha Day

Just a quick note. This is the first post I have made from my new server. I need to test it out. I hope you get the e-mail to announce this post. And if you could, please help me find out if the comments work. So if you get this post, either comment or send me a quick e-mail or text and let me know you got the notification and that you could see the post...

Now on to the reason for celebration today. Today is Keeley's Gotcha Day. If you don't know what that is, (I didn't until about two months ago) that is the day we Got her or in the case of talking to her, it's her Gotcha Day.

A year ago today we woke up expecting to rehome this wonderful dog. But that almost didn't happen. We woke up fully expecting to pick her up at 2:00 that afternoon. Around noon, while we were eating lunch, my phone rang. We knew it was bad news. It was her original owner, calling to say that they had thought it over and they just couldn't part with her. We were crushed. We had met her earlier in the week and fallen in love at first sight.

We sat and were sad for about 20 minutes and then the phone rang again. It was her owner. He said, "Please come and get her. We want to keep her but we just can't and we know she will have a wonderful home with you. But please get her fast before we change our mind again." We have never driven so fast to North Seattle as we did that day. We grabbed her and all her stuff and she has been ours ever since. I took the photo above on that day when we got her home and took her out to run in the backyard.

Since that day it has been one of the best experiences of our lives. We had both always been dog people but somehow, at our age, it is different. We have more time with her because we are home all the time. It has been tough finding a dog sitter and we were lucky enough that our daughters were willing to take her when we went to Africa and later on our Columbia River cruise. Other than that, we have been with her every day.

She is quite the dog. Kathleen ran her DNA and found that she is about 30% pit bull terrier, 20% Chow, 20% American eskimo. The rest is what they call "super mutt." We don't care what she is, we just love her. She was briefly trained to be an emotional support dog and we can see the results of that. If there is ever any tension in the house (me getting mad at my computer, etc.) she is right there in my face to give me kisses and calm me down. She even has four unprintable words you can say to her at any time that will get her to jump into your lap and comfort you.

She has developed a wonderful daily routine. She gets up with me at 4:30, sleeps on the couch while I ride my bike, helps me wake up her "mommy" and then it's breakfast, playing, lunch, naps. walk, treats, dinner and finally bedtime snack before jumping up on my bed for a good night talk. Then she is off to her own bed for a good night's sleep.

Just for fun, I ran up a Photos movie of all the videos and pics we have taken of her this year. One of those videos that Apple's Photos app, just creates. And here it is, just for you. You might have to watch it on YouTube until I can figure out why it won't show up here. Just click the link below or here.

https://youtu.be/h-ojZmOJx_k?si=BmjMHcny4TMpDaW3

There is nothing like owning a dog. They are the best.

A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.  - Josh Billings